10 Things Successful People Never Do Again

MySAR for 30th June

10 Things Successful People Never Do Again We all make misakes but the people who thrive from their mistakes are successful ones. ~De. Henry cloud "Never go back." What does that mean? From observations of successful people, clinical psychologist and author of Never Go  Back : 10 Things You'll Never Do Again (Howard Books June 2014), Dr. Henry Cloud has discovered certain "awakenings" that people have - in life and in business - that once they have them, they never go back to the old way of doing things. And when that happens, they are never the same. In short, they got it. "Years ago, a bad business decision of mine led to an interesting discussion with my mentor,"Dr. Cloud says. "I had learned a valuable lesson the hard way, and he reassured me: "The good thing is once you learn that lesson, you never go back. You never do it again." "I wondered, what are the key awakenings that successful people go through that forever change how they do things, which propel them to succeed in business, relationships, and life? I began to study these awakenings, researching them over the years." Although life and business have many lessons to teach us, Dr Cloud observed 10 "doorways" of learning that high performers go through, never to return again. Successful people never again ..... 1. Return to what hasn't not worked. Whether a job, or a broken relationship that was ended for a good reason, we should never go back to the same thing, expecting different results, without something being different. 2. Do anything that requires them to be someone they are not. In everything we do, we have to ask ourselves, "Why am I doing this? Am i suited for it ? Does it fit me? Is it sustainable?" If the answer is not to any of these questions, you better have a very good reason to proceed. 3. Try to change another person. When  you realize that you cannot force someone into doing something, you give him or her freedom and allow them to experience the consequences. In doing so, you find your own freedom as well. 4. Believe they can please everyone. Once you get that it truly is impossible to please everyone, you begin to live purposefully, trying to please the right people. 5. Choose short-term comfort over long-term benefit. Once successful people know they want something that requires a painful. time-limited step, they do not mind the painful step because it gets them to a long-term benefit. Living out this principle is one of the most fundamental differences between successful and unsuccessful people, both personally and professionally. 6. Trust someone or something that appears flawless. It's natural for us to be drawn to things and people that appear "incredible." We love excellence and should always be looking for it. We should pursue people who are great at what they do, employees who are high performers, dates who are exceptional people, friends who have stellar character, and companies that excel. But when someone or something looks too good to be true, he, she, or it is. The world is imperfect. Period. No one and no thing is without flaw, and if they appear that way, hit pause. 7. Take their eyes off the big picture. We function better emotionally and perform better in our lives when we can see the big picture. For successful people, no one event is ever the whole story. Winners remember that - each and every day. 8. Neglect to do due diligence. No matter how good something looks on the outside, it is only by taking a deeper, diligent, and honest look that we will find out what we truly need to know: the reality that we owe ourselves. 9. Fail to ask why they are where they find themselves. One of the biggest differences between successful people and others is that in love and in life, in relationship and in business, successful people always ask themselves, what part am I playing in this situation? Said another way, they do not see themselves only as victims, even when they are. 10. Forget that their inner life determines their outer success. The good life sometimes has little to do with outside circumstances. We are happy and fulfilled mostly by who are on the inside. Research validates that. And our internal lives largely contribute to producing many of our external circumstances. And, the converse is true: people who are still trying to find success in various areas of life can almost always point to one or more of these patterns as a reason they are repeating the same mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes...even the most successful people out there. But, what achievers do better than others is recognize the patterns that are causing those mistakes and never repeat them again. In short, they learn from pain - their own and the pain of others. A good thing to remember is this : pain is unavoidable, but repeating the same pain twice, when we could choose to learn and do something different, is certainly avoidable. I like to say. "We don't need new ways to fail....the old ones are working just fine..!" Our task, in business and in life, is to observe what they are, and never go back to doing them again........ लहरों से डर कर नौका पार नहीं होती, कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती। नन्हीं चींटी जब दाना लेकर चलती है, चढ़ती दीवारों पर, सौ बार फिसलती है। मन का विश्वास रगों में साहस भरता है, चढ़कर गिरना, गिरकर चढ़ना न अखरता है। आख़िर उसकी मेहनत बेकार नहीं होती, कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती। डुबकियां सिंधु में गोताखोर लगाता है, जा जा कर खाली हाथ लौटकर आता है। मिलते नहीं सहज ही मोती गहरे पानी में, बढ़ता दुगना उत्साह इसी हैरानी में। मुट्ठी उसकी खाली हर बार नहीं होती, कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती। असफलता एक चुनौती है, इसे स्वीकार करो, क्या कमी रह गई, देखो और सुधार करो। जब तक न सफल हो, नींद चैन को त्यागो तुम, संघर्ष का मैदान छोड़ कर मत भागो तुम। कुछ किये बिना ही जय जय कार नहीं होती, कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती। --हरिवंशराय बच्चन  Great poem by Harivanshrai Bachchan Lehron se dar kar nauka paar nahi hoti himmat karne waalon ki haar nahi hoti Nanhi cheenti jab daana lekar chalti hai chadhti deewaron par sau baar fisalti hai Mann ka vishwas ragon mein saahas banta hai chadh kar girna, gir kar chadhna na akharta hai Akhir uski mehnat bekar nahi hoti koshish karne waalon ki haar nahi hoti… Dubkiyan sindhu mein gota khor lagaata hai ja ja kar khaali haath laut aata hai Milte na sahaj hi moti paani mein badta doogna utsaah issi hairaani mein Mutthi uski khaali har baar nahi hoti himmat karne waalon ki haar nahi hoti… Asafalta ek chunauti hai sweekar karo kya kami reh gayi dekho aur sudhaar karo Jab tak na safal ho neend chain ki tyago tum sangharshon ka maidaan chhodh mat bhago tum Kuch kiye bina he jai jai kaar nahi hoti himmat karne waalon ki haar nahi ho English translation: The boat that qualms the waves Never gets across The mind that dreads and dares Has never been at loss The tiny ant, when it carries the grain Lays it up into the heights of the wall Falls slipping a hundred times, Just as it tries again The faith in the mind Stirs courage in the nerves It soars and slips, then slips and soars again Until its efforts have not been in vain The diver who scrounges deep into the oceans Comes bare in his fist a number of times It is not so painless Eachtime he delves to hit upon a pearl Someday, when out of those deep seas he whirls And in surprise, that his efforts have brought Glad, for his fist is not empty everytime And in him that seamless effort herald a cheery chime O’ accept the failures that cross your way They are just the challenging mile-stones And build from right here, where you fell Until all the shortcomings cease, And you soar in success Burn restful sleeps in the sacrificial pyres Until tireless struggles brought smiles of joy Oh! Do not run away from the battlefields For triumph always yields such joy Just after relentless endeavours……….

MySAR for 30th June

Everything around us is made up of energy. To attract positive things in your life, Start by giving off positive energy!!!   I CHOOSE…… To live by choice, not by chance; To make changes, not excuses; To be motivated, not manipulated; To be usefull, not used; To excel, not compete; I choose self esteem, not self pity. I choose to listen to my inner voice, Not the random opinion of others.
Trade list of 27th June has been updated below (do watch it)
Today’s Trading potentialies (breakout system) for 30th June Nifty Future above 7561...may reach 7575/7590/7605/7620/7640 Nifty Future below 7520...may reach 7505/7490/7475/7460/7445 Bank Nifty future above 15191...may reach 15240/15285/15335/15365/15415/15455 Bank Nifty future below 15105...may reach 15070/15030/14990/14945/14910/14875
For Positional traders : For those who trade like Investors
Weekly Pivot Levels
Security	W-S3	W-S2	W-S1	W-Pivot	W-R1	W-R2	W-R3
Nifty (Future)	7236.98	7389.33	7466.62	7541.68	7618.97	7694.03	7846.38
BankNifty (Future)	14339.07	14752.17	14946.53	15165.27	15359.63	15578.37	15991.47
Daily MySAR Levels For Future Segment : https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B_kb8cijwPZvNjBuOG5lWVRfbnc/edit?usp=sharing ******************************************************************************************************************* Daily MySAR Levels For Cash Segment : https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B_kb8cijwPZvS1FKTmZjM1FyQ2M/edit?usp=sharing ******************************************************************************************************************* Don't miss to watch: updated upto 6th June 2014 To watch the performance of MySAR :  https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B_kb8cijwPZvTVd6alFxR0VnVzA/edit?usp=sharing
For other Nifty 50 (future) scrips click link : Do not enter into a trade without referring past data. It will save your trade from catching the running train. If  the price of the scrip ran up or down too much during last few days, please please do not take fresh entry either of short or long otherwise it will be considered as catching of  running train and in such cases price in near future may move against expectations resulting into losses. Better wait for breach of MySAR_A level for fresh trade......
Patience pays........... Presently holding Position : Position as on 18th June Positonal Long in NF  7285(2L)+7379(3L)+7406+7537, 7580(1L holding)  (Booked at 7360, 7420, 7420, 7455, 7705, 7605, 7650 : 539 points) Positonal Short in BNF  15290(3L)+15260(fully booked & reveresed) (Covered at 15161, 14990, 15120,15210, 15210: 599 points ) Positonal Long in BNF  15210(3L)(No position) (Booked at 15375, 15351, 15210 : 306 points) Position as on 19th June Positonal Long in NF  7285(2L)+7379(3L)+7406+7537, 7580(1L holding) (Booked at 7360, 7420, 7420, 7455, 7705, 7605, 7650 : 539 points) Positonal Short in BNF  15140, 15095(1L Holding) (Covered at 15060 : 80 points) Position as on 20th June Positonal Long in NF  7285(2L)+7379(3L)+7406+7537, 7580(Fully booked & reversed) (Booked at 7360, 7420, 7420, 7455, 7705, 7605, 7650, 7520  : 774 points Positonal Short in NF : 7520 (1L holding) Positonal Short in BNF  15140, 15095, 15110(1L Holding) (Covered at 15060, 15070 : 120 points) NF breached MySAR and hence we booked all longs in it and reversed the trade to short at 7520. Now on Monday considering the trend of the market,  will act accordingly. Position as on 23rd June Positonal Short in NF : 7520+7425(3L)(1L holding) (Booked at 7545, 7475, 7490 : + 60 points) Positonal Short in BNF  15140, 15095, 15110+15120(1L Holding) (Covered at 15060, 15070, 15030 : 210 points) Position as on 24th June Positonal Short in NF : 7520+7425(3L)(fully covered & reversed)  (Booked at 7545, 7475, 7490, 7545 : + 40 points) Positonal Short in BNF : 15140, 15095, 15110+15120(fully covered & reversed) (Booked at 15060, 15070, 15030, 15190 : 160 points) Positonal Long in NF : 7555 (2L)(1L holding) expiry is nearer  (Booked at 7595 :  40 points) Positonal Long in BNF :  15185 (2L) (1L holding) (expiry is nearer (Booked at 15290 : 105 points) Carried positional longs in both NF & BNF, not any change therein on 25th June Position as on 26th June Positonal Long in NF : 7555 (2L)(exited at entry of June series) (Booked at 7595 :  40 points) Positonal Long in BNF :  15185 (2L)(booked out June series) (Booked at 15290, 15260 : 180 points) Price of July series is in premium of more than 40 points for nf and 150 points for bnf and closed above developing SAR. Taken long as BTST  at 7535 and 15195 as mentioned below. Will take necessary action considering tomorrow's price movement for the July series. Position as on 26th June Not taken any positional trade in either in nf nor bnf. Only BTST taken in NF ----------------------------------------------------------- Trades triggered on 27th June 1. LT (F) long at 1689…………………….booked at 1695 (1500 profit) gauresh59 (6/27/2014 9:16:34 AM): LT open high equal at 1689.......low at 1685.......weak below 1683 ….Touched at Midpoint of R1 and R2 at 1699…and tsl hit at 1695 2. ICICIbank (F) shorted at 1409………covered at 1401 (2000 profit) gauresh59 (6/27/2014 9:17:25 AM): ICICIbank open high equal at 1419......low at 1412.........strong above 1422..........weak below 1409. Midpoint of s1 & pivot is 1401 3. JSWSteel (F) long at 1225……………….booked at 1235 (2500 profit) gauresh59 (6/27/2014 9:17:58 AM): JSWsteel open low equal at 1200..........high at 1220......strong  above 1225...........weak below 1195.  1237 was r1…..tsl hit at 1235 4. TechM (F) long at 2061……………………………….booked at 2071 (2500 profit) gauresh59(6-27-2014 09:14:03): techmmmmmmmmmmm..........next resistance at 2061........ gauresh59 (6-27-2014 09:38:45): techm trailed sl at 2071.........now gauresh59 (6-27-2014 09:42:26): tsl hit in techm at 2071…. gauresh59 (6-27-2014 09:52:27): techm............rising ....... my tsl hit at 2071...........it happens. 5. HCLtech (F) long at 1454…………………………………booked at 1494 (10000 profit) Premarket message : HCLtech above 1454/64…. Below 1439/29 gauresh59 (6-27-2014 09:18:10): hcltech near to 1454................ gauresh59 (6-27-2014 09:51:17): hcltechhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.................... gauresh59 (6-27-2014 09:54:34): next resistance in hcltech at 1471.......... gauresh59 (6-27-2014 09:54:55): go on trailing sl in hcltech.............long taken from 1454........... gauresh59 (6-27-2014 10:26:28): hcltech ............i trailed sl at 1478........... gauresh59 (6-27-2014 10:32:44): hahaahha..........hcltechhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...........go on trailing sl ......i trailed at 1484............. gauresh59 (6-27-2014 10:36:18): the current candle low is at 1485.85..........in hcltech ...........hence trailed sl at 1484........ gauresh59 (6-27-2014 10:42:53): booked out at 1494.................hcltech ..............from 1454...........to 1494,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,cheersssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss HCLtech r3 is at 1494 6. RELinfra (F) long at 731……………………………booked at 727 (2000 loss) Premarket Message : RELinfra above 731/37 ……..Below 724/18…….stop loss hit 7. HDFC (F) long at 978……………………………….booked at 98 gauresh59 (6-27-2014  09:20:50): hdfc near to next resistance of 978....... gauresh59 (6-27-2014  09:26:23): hdfcccccccccccccccccccccccccccc gauresh59 (6-27-2014  09:30:38): booked hdfc at 985........ 983 was pivot ………989 is midpoint of povit & r1……r1 was at 995 gauresh59 (6-27-2014 09:32:50): hdfc heading to 989........991........995...........??????????? made high at 989……then started to decline 8. RelCap (F) long at 647………………………..booked at 644 (3000 loss) gauresh59 (6/27/2014 9:43:01 AM): relcap ......as usual resistance at 647.................above that it 649............651..........654............to be watched as usual levels stop loss hit ….. 9. M&M (F) long at 1151…………………………booked at  1155 (1000 profit) gauresh59 (6/27/2014 9:54:26 AM): risky long taken in M&M at 1151 with sl of 6 points ............... Made high at 1157 ….1155 was midpoint of s2 & S1…..and tsl hit at 1155……. 10. ICICIBank (F) short at 1409 ………………..covered at 1397 (3000 profit) gauresh59 (6/27/2014 9:17:25 AM): ICICIbank open high equal at 1419......low at 1412.........strong above 1422..........weak below 1409... gauresh59 (6/27/2014 11:27:31 AM): icicibnkkkkkkk........near to 1404........... 1401 was midpoint of pivot & s1, 1401.80 low made on 19th June …..1391 was s1…reached at 1390….tsl hit at 1397 11. BNF BTST at 15195…………..booked at 15235 (+ 40 points) 12. BNF (3L)shorted at 15152……covered at 15108 (+ 132 points 13. NF BTST at 7535………………booked at 7550 (+ 15 points) 14. NF shorted at 7540…………...booked at 7524 (+ 16 points) 15. NF long taken at 7541……….to carry  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Cheers.........Cheers .......Cheers......... Patience always Pays...... Patience in Learning ...Patience in Earnings..... ------------------------------------------------------------------ Three Thumb Rules : (1) Always trade only at the levels given. (2) Keep booking profits without missing a winning opportunity. (3) And once in profit, trail stop loss to the entry level to protect the capital funds. Wish you all happy and profitable trading ahead…… ==============================================================
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